A Curious Invitation present London Month of the Dead
The Cradle and Grave
THE CRADLE AND THE GRAVE
Grief and Terror in Victorian Child Bereavement
With Dr Jen Baker on Saturday the 17th October 2026 at 1:30 pm

How were children remembered and idealised in Victorian cemeteries, consolation literatures, illustration, and fiction? Then, as now, the death of a child was considered a "peculiar sorrow", the greatest tragedy and, for Edith Nesbit, "the pain awoke that is never dead". This period saw the most widespread extravagant glorifications of the lost child - immortalised as the most beautiful and innocent demographic, assured of Heaven in a way that refuted centuries of gloomy uncertainty. Tombstones, eulogies, effigies, illustrations, diary entries, poems, prose fictions, post-mortem photography; the ways in which the dead child could be captured, recorded, memorialised in all its glory increased exponentially.

  Yet the exaltations of the period were matched by the deepest and most fervent expressions of terror not only for the child in death but of the child: Folk tales of pitiful child ghosts transformed into literary accounts of vengeful spirits and revenant bodies.

This talk examines various examples from the "cult of child death" from the cemetery to the page, from folklore to literature, from high theology to popular religions, from the celebrated to the feared in Anglophone cultures. 

Tickets £13.50 including a delightful gin cocktail and a 20% donation to Brompton Cemetery. Please click here to purchase.

Dr Jen Baker
Jen Baker is an Associate Professor at the University of Warwick and an Associate Editor for the journal Gothic Studies. An expert on childhood, child death, ghost stories, and Victorian mourning cultures, she has published a number of articles and book chapters on those areas, as well as editing the anthology Minor Hauntings: Chilling Tales of Spectral Youth in 2021 for the British Library Tales of the Weird series and co-editing and contributing to New Directions in the Ghost Story, the two-volume edited collection of scholarship with Palgrave 2026.




Brompton Cemetery